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Viv
03-25-2008, 05:59 PM
Don't even go there, this is a serious scientific study... which I felt I had to bring to the attention of posters in order to promote awareness and improve our quality of life...:D:D:D

When you're in the mood, it's a sure bet that the last thing on your mind is boosting your immune system or maintaining a healthy weight. Yet good sex offers those health benefits and more.

That's a surprise to many people, says Joy Davidson, PhD, a New York psychologist and sex therapist. "Of course, sex is everywhere in the media," she says. "But the idea that we are vital, sexual creatures is still looked at in some cases with disgust or in other cases a bit of embarrassment. So to really take a look at how our sexuality adds to our life and enhances our life and our health, both physical and psychological, is eye-opening for many people."

Sex does a body good in a number of ways, according to Davidson and other experts. The benefits aren't just anecdotal or hearsay -- each of these 10 health benefits of sex is backed by scientific scrutiny.

Among the benefits of healthy loving in a relationship:

1. Sex Relieves Stress

A big health benefit of sex is lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction, according to researchers from Scotland who reported their findings in the journal Biological Psychology. They studied 24 women and 22 men who kept records of their sexual activity. Then the researchers subjected them to stressful situations -- such as speaking in public and doing verbal arithmetic -- and noted their blood pressure response to stress.

Those who had intercourse had better responses to stress than those who engaged in other sexual behaviors or abstained.

Another study published in the same journal found that frequent intercourse was associated with lower diastolic blood pressure in cohabiting participants. Yet other research found a link between partner hugs and lower blood pressure in women.

2. Sex Boosts Immunity

Good sexual health may mean better physical health. Having sex once or twice a week has been linked with higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A or IgA, which can protect you from getting colds and other infections. Scientists at Wilkes University in Wilkes-Barre, Pa., took samples of saliva, which contain IgA, from 112 college students who reported the frequency of sex they had.

Those in the "frequent" group -- once or twice a week -- had higher
levels of IgA than those in the other three groups -- who reported being abstinent, having sex less than once a week, or having it very often, three or more times weekly.

3. Sex Burns Calories

Thirty minutes of sex burns 85 calories or more. It may not sound like much, but it adds up: 42 half-hour sessions will burn 3,570 calories, more than enough to lose a pound. Doubling up, you could drop that pound in 21 hour-long sessions.

"Sex is a great mode of exercise," says Patti Britton, PhD, a Los Angeles sexologist and president of the American Association of Sexuality Educators and Therapists. It takes work, from both a physical and psychological perspective, to do it well, she says.

4. Sex Improves Cardiovascular Health

While some older folks may worry that the efforts expended during sex could cause a stroke, that's not so, according to researchers from
England. In a study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, scientists found frequency of sex was not associated with stroke in the 914 men they followed for 20 years.

And the heart health benefits of sex don't end there. The researchers also found that having sex twice or more a week reduced the risk of fatal heart attack by half for the men, compared with those who had sex less than once a month.

5. Sex Boosts Self-Esteem

Boosting self-esteem was one of 237 reasons people have sex, collected by University of Texas researchers and published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior.

That finding makes sense to Gina Ogden, PhD, a sex therapist and marriage and family therapist in Cambridge, Mass., although she finds that those who already have self-esteem say they sometimes have sex to feel even better. "One of the reasons people say they have sex is to feel good about themselves," she tells WebMD. "Great sex begins with self-esteem, and it raises it. If the sex is loving, connected, and what you want, it raises it."

6. Sex Improves Intimacy

Having sex and orgasms increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, the
so-called love hormone, which helps us bond and build trust. Researchers from
the University of Pittsburgh and the University of North Carolina evaluated 59
premenopausal women before and after warm contact with their husbands and partners ending with hugs. Tey found that the more contact, the higher the oxytocin levels.

"Oxytocin allows us to feel the urge to nurture and to bond," Britton says.

Higher oxytocin has also been linked with a feeling of generosity. So if you're feeling suddenly more generous toward your partner than usual, credit the love hormone.

7. Sex Reduces Pain

As the hormone oxytocin surges, endorphins increase, and pain
declines. So if your headache, arthritis pain, or PMS symptoms seem to improve after sex, you can thank those higher oxytocin levels.

In a study published in the Bulletin of Experimental Biology and
Medicine, 48 volunteers who inhaled oxytocin vapor and then had their fingers pricked lowered their pain threshold by more than half.

8. Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk

Frequent ejaculations, especially in 20-something men, may reduce the risk of prostate cancer later in life, Australian researchers reported in the British Journal of Urology International. When they followed men diagnosed with prostate cancer and those without, they found no association of prostate cancer with the number of sexual partners as the men reached their 30s, 40s, and 50s.

But they found men who had five or more ejaculations weekly while in their 20s reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer later by a third.

Another study, reported in the Journal of the American Medical
Association, found that frequent ejaculations, 21 or more a month, were linked to lower prostate cancer risk in older men, as well, compared with less frequent ejaculations of four to seven monthly.

9. Sex Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles

For women, doing a few pelvic floor muscle exercises known as Kegels during sex offers a couple of benefits. You will enjoy more pleasure, and you'll also strengthen the area and help to minimize the risk of incontinence later in life.

To do a basic Kegel exercise, tighten the muscles of your pelvic floor. Count to three, then release.

10. Sex Helps You Sleep Better

The oxytocin released during orgasm also promotes sleep, according to research.

And getting enough sleep has been linked with a host of other good things, such as maintaining a healthy weight and blood pressure. Something to think about, especially if you've been wondering why your guy can be active one minute and snoring the next.http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/03/24/health/webmd/main3961093.shtml?source=mostpop_story

I think number 10 kind of depends on who you're with...:p

miriya
03-25-2008, 06:02 PM
number 10 is all wrong, unless it a weekend were you can sleep all the after it :P

Viv
03-25-2008, 06:14 PM
number 10 is all wrong, unless it a weekend were you can sleep all the after it :P

Or unless the guy is just boring...:p

Viv
03-25-2008, 06:14 PM
number 10 is all wrong, unless it a weekend were you can sleep all the after it :P

Or unless the guy/girl is just boring...:p

Edit] forgot I was talking to you, Miriya...

miriya
03-25-2008, 08:09 PM
hehehe

only been with one really boring guy, thought about what I would do after, while I was with him :p

not a problem with my current girl :p

bay
03-25-2008, 09:53 PM
Do we have to have a reason???????????????????????????????????????????? ??????

Mono Tejano
03-26-2008, 12:07 AM
this is old news.

and they left out the number one reason to have sex EVERY night...

it's fun.

sure it's good for you. Who doesn't know that? but when you can get it, whether in a committed relationship or just with a friend, it's just plain good for you because it's just plain FUN.

Don melQuiades
03-26-2008, 12:11 AM
I think I'll print this list off and start handing out to all the women I meet. :p

Chookie
03-26-2008, 08:32 PM
I'm too bloody tired tonight............

bay
03-26-2008, 10:24 PM
oh dear chookie, that's so sad.

Viv
03-26-2008, 10:26 PM
this is old news.

and they left out the number one reason to have sex EVERY night...

it's fun.

sure it's good for you. Who doesn't know that? but when you can get it, whether in a committed relationship or just with a friend, it's just plain good for you because it's just plain FUN.

You sound interesting....lol.......

bay
03-26-2008, 10:30 PM
Only every night, mono tejano???

Don melQuiades
03-27-2008, 12:58 AM
Only every night, mono tejano???

Morning sex. Ftw.

Don melQuiades
03-27-2008, 12:58 AM
Not that I would know, being an angel and stuff.

bay
03-27-2008, 02:51 AM
yeaaaa, there's a lot of angels on this board, ROTFLMAO

Viv
03-27-2008, 04:20 PM
yeaaaa, there's a lot of angels on this board, ROTFLMAO

I have heard it all....Donkey is angelic...http://i227.photobucket.com/albums/dd18/VivR/cuppa.gif

Come on now Donkey, I miss your pics...think I'll start the thread just to see that angelic face...http://i227.photobucket.com/albums/dd18/VivR/angel.gif

Don melQuiades
03-27-2008, 04:44 PM
I have heard it all....Donkey is angelic...http://i227.photobucket.com/albums/dd18/VivR/cuppa.gif

Come on now Donkey, I miss your pics...think I'll start the thread just to see that angelic face...http://i227.photobucket.com/albums/dd18/VivR/angel.gif

No message board is complete without a show me your face thread. :D

Viv
03-27-2008, 04:46 PM
No message board is complete without a show me your face thread. :D

Lol...yes I know it. But I am not gonna show my face until you show yours...:D

Don melQuiades
03-27-2008, 04:48 PM
Lol...yes I know it. But I am not gonna show my face until you show yours...:D

You make the thread, I'll make the pictures. :p

Viv
03-27-2008, 04:52 PM
You make the thread, I'll make the pictures. :p

Keep your shirt on...:p...I'm doin' it...:D

bay
03-27-2008, 04:55 PM
I dunno viv, how does donkey look without a shirt????

Viv
03-27-2008, 06:12 PM
I dunno viv, how does donkey look without a shirt????

Well, he does look good, but I just prefer him with his clothes on...I mean I can't even check out the shirtless pic for blushing...:o

No, I am not kidding, it is not unknown for him to post a shirt free pic.:D